Prompt 40: The Labor Coping Toolkit
When to use it
You're in labor (or close to it) and you need a menu of coping techniques organized by stage, intensity, and what works best when.
The Prompt
I'm in labor. [WHERE I AM — e.g., "at home in early labor" / "at the hospital, 4 cm" / "at 7 cm, no epidural" / "at 8 cm, considering epidural" / "pushing soon"].
My preferences:
- Pain management: [E.G., "unmedicated if possible" / "open to epidural" / "epidural planned" / "TENS unit interested"]
- Movement: [E.G., "want to move as much as possible" / "I'm on monitors" / "I have an IV" / "I'm stuck in bed"]
- Support: [E.G., "my partner is here" / "I have a doula" / "I'm alone" / "my mom is here"]
- Energy level: [E.G., "still strong" / "exhausted" / "second wind" / "I don't know how much longer"]
- What's working: [E.G., "movement" / "counter-pressure" / "shower" / "nothing" / "breathing"]
- What isn't: [E.G., "the birth ball" / "music" / "visualization"]
Please give me:
1. Stage-specific coping techniques (early labor vs. active labor vs. transition vs. pushing)
2. Positions organized by where I am (5 in early, 5 in active, 5 in pushing)
3. Partner/doula actions for each stage
4. What to do when the epidural is or isn't working
5. The "I can't do this" moment — what's happening + what actually helps
6. Sound/visual/tactile menu of options I haven't tried
7. The 5-minute re-anchor for panic moments
Important: I want a real menu, not a generic list.Example output
*"Active labor (4-7 cm): upright positions (standing, swaying, slow dancing), birth ball circles, hands-and-knees (especially for back labor), shower aimed at low back. Partner: counter-pressure on sacrum, hip squeezes, slow breathing with you, cold cloth on forehead. Transition (7-10 cm): the 'I can't do this' phase. It's brief. What helps: vocalization (low sounds, not high-pitched — opens pelvis), water if available, position changes every 20-30 min. Don't offer 'just get the epidural' as default — ask 'do you want to talk about options or just keep going?' Pushing: open pelvis positions (squat, side-lying, hands-and-knees), follow your body's urge, breathe baby down vs. directed pushing."*
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